Breaking Sales

Hosted by Dan Lappin

Business EducationInterviews guestsExplicit

Website RSS feed

Episodes

240

Latest episode

Jun 2026

Language

About the show

Behind the scenes with one of America's leading sales renegades, Dan Lappin, and his fanatic crew of disruptors from Lappin180. Listen as Dan, his sales training team, and their guests destroy everything you thought you knew about selling. A nonconformist take on rejecting the status quo, Lappin180 annihilates the tried-and-died sales tactics and techniques that have failed you, and your prospects. Here is your chance to break free of convention and tedious sales rules top earners never follow. In interviews with business leaders and industry insiders, Dan will inspire you to think differently, stop selling, and break the sale. Join Dan on his unorthodox mission to shatter the dull monotony of performance stagnation.

Listen to episodes

60 recent

June 15, 2026Episode 20054 min

The Work Nobody Sees with Coach Urban Meyer

There's a pattern that often appears in sales organizations: someone isn't performing, and the response is frustration, blame, or eventually, a conversation about whether they still belong on the team. What rarely happens is an honest look at whether that person was ever actually set up to succeed — whether they had the development, environment, and preparation to perform when the stakes were high. In the 200th episode of Breaking Sales, Dan sits down with three-time national championship-winning college football coach Urban Meyer for a conversation about what high performance actually requires. Coach Meyer spent decades putting other people in positions to succeed. His philosophy on what that takes — and what gets in the way — translates directly to how you lead the people around you… and how you think about your own performance. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

June 1, 2026Episode 19951 min

Why You Choose to Play It Safe with Roy Baumeister

There's a reason so many smart, capable sales professionals consistently avoid doing the things they know they need to do and taking the risks they know they need to take. It's not laziness, and it's not a lack of motivation. As it turns out, it's rooted in something far more fundamental about how the human mind works. Roy Baumeister is a decorated social psychologist who has spent decades researching topics like loss aversion, self-control, and the outsized weight of negative experiences. In this episode, Roy joins Dan for a conversation that digs into why it's so tempting to pull back in the moments that matter most — as well as what it takes to start overriding that urge. If you've ever found yourself consistently avoiding the things you know matter most, this episode is for you. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

May 18, 2026Episode 19835 min

Is Development Fatigue Real?

Plenty of sales professionals will tell you they're committed to their own development. But when you ask them what they're actually doing, how much time they're putting in, or whether it's paying off, the answers are all over the map. In this episode, Dan and Pam explore what real professional development requires — and what separates it from the kind that feels productive but doesn't actually help you improve. They take an honest look at why so many people experience fatigue in the process, and what that fatigue might be telling you when it shows up. This conversation is for anyone who feels fatigue but serious about improving — not just staying busy. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

May 4, 2026Episode 19749 min

Self-Awareness and Performance with Dr. Mark Leary

There's a pattern that affects almost every sales professional, regardless of experience level: the conversations that matter most are rarely the ones that bring out your best performance. The higher the stakes, the more you might find yourself hesitating, second-guessing, and holding back — even when you know exactly what needs to be said. It's easy to chalk this up to nerves. But the reality is that something specific is happening in your brain in those moments — and it has everything to do with where your attention goes when the pressure increases. In this episode, Dan sits down with social psychologist Mark Leary to discuss how self-awareness and social motivation influence performance when the stakes are high. If you've ever walked out of an important conversation thinking, "I know I could have done better," this episode will give you a clearer understanding of why. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

April 20, 2026Episode 19638 min

Designing a High-Performance Day

It can be common to not always give much thought to how you're setting yourself up each day. You might have habits, but not a deliberate practice built around how you actually want to perform. But performing at your best — and achieving a sense of fulfillment when the day is over — doesn't happen by accident. It requires deliberately building the structures and routines that actually support you. In this episode, Dan and Pam talk through what this looks like for them: the routines they've built, how they structure their weeks, and how they manage the mental pushback that happens during difficult or uncomfortable moments. If you've ever wondered how you can be more intentional about how you show up each day, this conversation is worth your time. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

April 6, 2026Episode 1951 hr 6 min

The Neuroscience of Trust with Dr. Paul Zak

What does it actually take to build trust in a sales conversation? Not just rapport, but trust — the kind that makes a prospect lean in, open up, and ultimately make a decision? Dr. Paul Zak is a behavioral neuroscientist, the author of several books, including Trust Factor and Immersion, and one of the world's leading researchers on the science of trust and persuasion. In this illuminating conversation, Dan and Paul explore what actually drives trust in a high-stakes sales interaction. Listen in to learn why the most likable salespeople may not always close the deal, what's really happening in the brain when a prospect decides whether to trust you or not, and the hidden cost of walking into a conversation focused on a specific outcome. Whether you've been in sales for two years or twenty, the science Paul shares in this episode will challenge assumptions you might not even know you're making. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

March 16, 2026Episode 19431 min

Providing for Today vs. Building for Tomorrow

Ask any underperforming sales professional why they're not doing what they need to do, and you'll eventually hear them say, "My family comes first." Ask a top performer the same question about what drives them, and you'll hear the exact same thing. It all comes down to how one demonstrates it. In this episode, Dan and Pam explore the uncomfortable reality behind one of the most universal (and most misused) statements in sales. They break down why "family is my priority" means something fundamentally different depending on who's saying it, and what those differences reveal about mindset, discipline, and long-term performance. Their conversation challenges the assumption that present-day sacrifice and future-focused ambition are at odds — and makes the case that the most responsible thing you can do for your family is to stop using them as a reason to avoid the hard work. If the idea that your family is your priority has ever made you feel better about a decision you knew you should have made differently, this episode is for you. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

March 2, 2026Episode 19359 min

Rewiring Your Response to Adversity with Erez Avramov

What separates professionals who stay composed when facing rejection from those who get knocked off course? It's not experience or natural talent; it's understanding how your mind responds to challenges and redirecting it when it starts working against you. In this episode, Dan sits down with resilience expert Erez Avramov, who discovered something powerful about mental resilience after surviving multiple life-threatening experiences. Through his recovery, Erez developed a five-stage approach that applies directly to how we handle pressure, rejection, and uncertainty in sales. Listen in to learn how to rewire your responses when conversations don't go your way—and how to transform setbacks into fuel for better performance. For anyone looking to build the mental toughness that sets top performers apart, this episode offers an approach that will transform how you respond to adversity.  Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

February 16, 2026Episode 19223 min

The Questions Your Prospects Can't Ask Themselves

What stops you from asking the question that could genuinely help a prospect think differently? Most of the time, it's not a lack of awareness. You can usually see what needs to be addressed—but something holds you back from creating the discomfort that leads to clarity. In this episode, Dan and Pam explore a simple but powerful reframe that will change how you approach these moments. They break down how to think about your responsibility to prospects in sales conversations and what it truly looks like to play the role of the objective, neutral advisor. You'll walk away understanding why asking questions from a place of genuine service creates a more productive dialogue—and how this shift affects everything from prospect engagement to the quality of thinking you can facilitate. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos

February 2, 2026Episode 1911 hr 4 min

The Warrior's Sales Playbook with Chris Harris

What can a martial artist who trained tier-one special forces teach you about sales performance? Everything. In this episode, Dan sits down with Chris Harris: bestselling author, keynote speaker, Martial Arts Hall of Fame inductee, and creator of the combat system Roku Jitsu. Chris spent 25 years training elite military operators in close-quarters combat before transitioning to sales, where he discovered that the same mental disciplines that create warriors also create top sales performers. In this episode, Chris shares his journey from childhood adversity to becoming number one in his field. He breaks down his four essential questions every salesperson must answer about their product/ service, explains why 95% of selling happens in the subconscious mind, and shares how to reprogram self-limiting beliefs. If you've ever wondered how elite performers think differently, this conversation offers a wealth of pressure-tested strategies that work just as effectively in the boardroom as they do on the battlefield. Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@BreakingSalesPodcast/videos