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Jun 2026

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Welcome to the BNI San Diego Podcast, the show where we bring you valuable insights and advice from some of the most successful business leaders and entrepreneurs in the San Diego area, and BNI Globally. Join our host, Ed Wilson, as he interviews a variety of guests, from seasoned business owners to up-and-coming entrepreneurs, to uncover the secrets of their success. From marketing and branding to networking and business strategy, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a small business owner looking to grow your company or an entrepreneur just starting out, the BNI San Diego Podcast has something for everyone. With expert advice and practical tips you can put into action right away, you'll be on your way to achieving your business goals in no time. So tune in to the BNI San Diego Podcast and get ready to take your business to the next level.

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June 16, 2026Episode 13540 min

🎙️ Why Givers Gain Works: The Psychology of Reciprocity in Business | Jenn Edwards

What if the secret to getting more referrals, building stronger relationships, and growing your business wasn't selling at all?In this episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, Ed Wilson sits down with longtime BNI leader and relationship-building expert Jenn Edwards to explore one of the most powerful principles in human behavior: The Law of Reciprocity.Inspired by the bestselling book Influence, Jenn breaks down the psychology behind why people naturally want to help those who help them first—and how this principle aligns perfectly with BNI's core philosophy of Givers Gain®.But there's a catch.Many business professionals misunderstand reciprocity and accidentally turn it into manipulation, creating the exact opposite result they intended.If you've ever felt uncomfortable being sold to, struggled with networking, or wondered why some people naturally attract opportunities while others constantly chase them, this conversation is for you.🚀 In This Episode You'll Learn:✅ What the Law of Reciprocity actually means✅ Why "Givers Gain®" works from a psychological perspective✅ The difference between authentic relationship-building and sales tactics✅ Why people can sense when they're being manipulated✅ How trust is built naturally through generosity✅ Why desperation repels opportunities in business✅ The difference between transactional networking and relational networking✅ How to create genuine influence without selling✅ Why successful entrepreneurs focus on helping first✅ How to build a referral-based business that people actually enjoy supporting💡 Key TakeawayPeople don't want to be sold.They want to be understood.The strongest business relationships are built when your first goal is helping others—not closing a deal.As Jenn explains, true reciprocity happens when you give with no agenda attached and allow trust to develop naturally over time. That's where the magic happens.👇 We'd Love Your ThoughtsHave you ever experienced a business interaction that felt authentic and relationship-focused?Or one that felt completely transactional?Share your experience in the comments below.👍 Like this video if you believe relationships matter in business.🔔 Subscribe for more insights on networking, entrepreneurship, leadership, and business growth.📤 Share this episode with someone who wants to grow their business without feeling "sales-y."#BNI #GiversGain #BusinessNetworking #RelationshipMarketing #Entrepreneurship #Influence #ReferralMarketing #BusinessGrowth #SalesPsychology #NetworkingTips #LeadershipDevelopment #PersonalBranding #SmallBusinessOwner #ProfessionalNetworking #HumanBehavior #BNISanDiego #BusinessRelationships #TrustBasedSelling #Mindset #EntrepreneurLifeVisit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

June 9, 2026Episode 13412 min

Episode 134 – Should you really “Follow your Passion” | Leadership & Networking with Jon Lyon

What if the advice you've heard your entire life is wrong? "Follow your passion."It's one of the most common pieces of advice given to entrepreneurs, business owners, and professionals. But what if the real secret isn't finding your passion...What if it's bringing your passion with you wherever you go?In this episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, recorded live at the BNI National Conference in Orlando, Florida, Executive Director Ed Wilson talks with Jon Lyon, Executive Director of BNI Colorado West Slope, for a powerful conversation about leadership, visibility, mindset, and the impact of showing up with intention.Jon shares how a simple lesson completely changed the direction of his life and career, ultimately leading him from a travel-tech startup to BNI leadership. Together, Ed and Jon explore what it means to be present, how to develop influence, and why the energy you bring into a room matters more than you think.🔥 In this episode you'll discover:✅ Why "follow your passion" may be bad advice✅ The difference between finding passion and bringing passion with you✅ How visibility leads to credibility in business✅ Why presence is one of the most underrated leadership skills✅ How to become the person people naturally gravitate toward✅ The importance of being fully present in conversations✅ Why leadership starts with serving others✅ How repetition builds confidence and influence✅ Practical ways to increase your impact in networking groups and business settings💡 Key Takeaway: People don't remember every word you say. They remember how you made them feel. Your energy, your presence, and your willingness to genuinely connect with others may be the most valuable assets you bring into any room.As Jon shares in this episode, leadership isn't about being the loudest voice in the room—it's about showing up consistently, being present, and helping others succeed.Whether you're a BNI member, entrepreneur, business owner, leader, or someone looking to make a greater impact in your career, this conversation will challenge you to think differently about passion, leadership, and personal growth.👇 Comment below: What's one person in your life who helped shape who you've become?👍 Like this video if you found value 🔔 Subscribe for more BNI success stories, leadership insights, and business growth conversations 📤 Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it#Leadership #Entrepreneurship #BusinessNetworking #PersonalDevelopment #BNI #BNISanDiego #LeadershipDevelopment #ProfessionalGrowth #MindsetMatters #BusinessGrowth #NetworkingTips #SmallBusiness #SuccessMindset #ReferralMarketing #BNIPodcast #ExecutiveLeadership #PublicSpeaking #Influence #Visibility #GiversGainHave a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

June 2, 2026Episode 13339 min

Episode 133 – From “Trying BNI” to 10% of Her Business | The Power of One-to-Ones & Referrals w/ Lindsay Curtis

What happens when you stop “trying” BNI and actually commit to it? In this episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, Lindsay Curtis (A Smart Move) shares her real journey from dipping her toe into BNI… to building a referral system that now generates 10% of her total business. This is a raw, honest, and highly practical conversation about what actually works in business networking, referral marketing, and long-term relationship building. 🚀 In This Episode You’ll Learn: ✅ Why BNI is a long game—not a quick win ✅ How Lindsay turned connections into a full “army” of referral partners ✅ The true power of one-to-one meetings (and why most people underuse them) ✅ How to generate referrals across multiple chapters and cities ✅ Why consistency and patience are critical for business growth ✅ The difference between givers vs takers in networking ✅ How to build trust that leads to high-quality referrals ✅ Why showing up matters more than immediate results ✅ How networking can open doors you never expected 🔥 Real Stories from This Episode • How one simple question — “Are you in BNI?” — turned into real business opportunities • How cross-chapter connections led to unexpected referrals • A powerful example of Givers Gain® in action, helping someone in need with no expectation of return • Why the strongest business growth often comes from relationships—not transactions 💡 Key Takeaway - BNI isn’t about quick referrals, It’s about building a trusted network that grows your business over time. When you commit to: ✔ One-to-ones ✔ Relationships ✔ Consistency …the referrals follow. 🎯 Action Steps for you take right now 📅 Schedule at least 2 one-to-ones per week 🤝 Focus on learning—not selling 📈 Build relationships BEFORE expecting results Because as Lindsay shares: “It’s not a byproduct… it’s the product.” Follow Lindsay and A Smart Move San Diego on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asmartmovesd/ Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com.Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

May 26, 2026Episode 13232 min

Episode 132 – Stressed, Burned Out, and Overwhelmed | Stress Reduction for Business Owners w/ Jan Cerasaro

Feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or constantly “on”? You’re not alone—and more importantly… you don’t have to stay that way. In this episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, we sit down with stress reduction coach Jan Cerasaro to break down how business owners, entrepreneurs, and professionals can reduce stress at the root—not just manage it. This is more than meditation tips. This is about understanding what’s actually causing your stress—and how to change it. 🚀 In This Episode You’ll Learn: ✅ The difference between stress management vs stress reduction ✅ How to identify the ROOT cause of your stress ✅ Why burnout happens (and how to prevent it) ✅ How stress impacts your business, relationships, and decision-making ✅ Simple techniques to become present and regain control instantly ✅ Why sleep quality is a major indicator of stress levels ✅ How to stop overthinking and quiet your mind ✅ The truth about work-life balance for entrepreneurs ✅ How to bring calm, confidence, and clarity into any room 🔥 Powerful Insight - Most people don’t even realize how much stress they’re carrying… Until it’s gone. As shared in this episode, stress often builds slowly through habits, beliefs, and life patterns—until it starts affecting your health, relationships, and performance. Feeling overwhelmed right now? Try this: 1️⃣ Pause 2️⃣ Look around and name 3 things you see 3️⃣ Notice 3 things you hear 4️⃣ Feel 3 physical sensations This grounding technique instantly brings you back to the present moment and reduces stress. Connect with Jan on LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jan-cerasaro-48x7/ Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

May 19, 2026Episode 13125 min

Episode 131 – Your Website Could Get You SUED & Most Businesses Don’t Know | Web Legal Compliance w/ Anton Siler

Think your website is “done” because it’s live? Think again. In this eye-opening episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, we sit down with SEO expert Anton Siler (Urbane Digital) to uncover one of the most overlooked risks in business today: website compliance. From ADA compliance to data privacy laws, most business owners are unknowingly exposing themselves to serious legal risk—simply by having a website. And the worst part? You could be non-compliant without even realizing it. 🚨 In This Episode You’ll Learn: ✅ Why your website may NOT be legally compliant (even if it looks great) ✅ What ADA website compliance actually means (and why it matters) ✅ How data privacy laws (like GDPR & California regulations) affect YOUR business ✅ The hidden risks of collecting customer data online ✅ Why your web designer may NOT have protected you ✅ How accessibility impacts SEO, user experience, and conversions ✅ The real cost of ignoring compliance (lawsuits, fines, lost business) ✅ Why AI is increasing legal exposure for business owners ✅ How compliance can actually HELP you grow your business Many business owners assume their website is “set and forget.” But as discussed in this episode, compliance is NOT a one-time task—it’s an ongoing responsibility. And with AI making it easier than ever to file lawsuits, the risk is growing every single year. Your website is more than a marketing tool, It’s a legal responsibility. If you want to protect your business AND improve performance: ✔ Make your website accessible ✔ Ensure proper data collection practices ✔ Stay up-to-date with changing regulations ✔ Work with experts who understand compliance 📈 Why This Matters for Your Business - This isn’t just about avoiding lawsuits. It’s about: • Increasing conversions • Improving SEO performance • Reaching a larger audience (including accessibility users) • Building trust with your customers 👉 Up to 15–20% of your audience may require accessibility features—and if they can’t use your site, they’ll leave immediately. Connect with Anton and Urbane Digital: https://urbane-digital.com/ Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

May 12, 2026Episode 13029 min

Episode 130 – It feels like AI Is Taking Over… But This Will Set You Apart | with Corryn Kivett

AI is everywhere in 2026…But the real question is: What makes YOU irreplaceable? In this powerful episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, we sit down with human behavior expert Corryn Kivett to unpack the truth about AI, automation, and why your human skills—communication, emotional intelligence, and authenticity—are now your greatest competitive advantage. This isn’t an anti-AI conversation. It’s about learning how to use AI as a tool, while doubling down on what makes you human. 🚀 In This Episode You’ll Learn: ✅ Why AI should support your business—not replace your thinking ✅ How over-reliance on AI is weakening creativity and communication ✅ The difference between consuming content vs creating thought leadership ✅ Why emotional intelligence will be MORE valuable in the AI era ✅ How to build deeper human connections in sales and business ✅ The real reason everyone is starting to sound the same online ✅ Why mental bandwidth is the new competitive edge for entrepreneurs ✅ How to avoid burnout and decision fatigue using AI correctly ✅ Practical ways to disconnect, reset, and regain clarity 🔥 Key Takeaway AI can handle tasks…But it can’t replace you. Your ability to: ✔ Think critically ✔ Communicate authentically ✔ Connect emotionally ✔ Lead with presence …is what will separate you in a world where everyone has access to the same tools. As discussed in this episode, when everyone relies on AI for messaging, human expression becomes the differentiator. 💡 Action Steps You Can Start Today: 🧠 Use AI AFTER you think—not before 📓 Spend time writing to develop your own ideas 📵 Create space away from your phone and distractions 💬 Focus on real conversations (not just digital communication) ⚖️ Balance automation with authentic human interaction Follow Corryn on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolutionroomofficial/ Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

May 5, 2026Episode 12933 min

Episode 129 – Why Your Appearance Is Costing You Business | Dress for Success & First Impressions w/ Toby Copeland

Are you losing business… because of how you show up? In this episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, we sit down with Toby Copeland, owner of Pearce Bespoke San Diego, to break down how your appearance, wardrobe, and first impression directly impact your confidence, credibility, and referrals. This conversation goes far beyond clothing. It’s about how you present yourself in business—and how others perceive you because of it. 🚀 In This Episode You’ll Learn: ✅ Why first impressions can make or break referrals ✅ How your appearance affects confidence, posture, and communication ✅ The real difference between off-the-rack vs custom (bespoke) clothing ✅ How to elevate your look without completely replacing your wardrobe ✅ The psychology behind “dressing for success” in business ✅ Why perception drives trust (especially in networking environments) ✅ How small upgrades (like a fitted jacket) can change everything ✅ The importance of grooming, fit, and personal presentation ✅ How to dress appropriately for your industry while still standing out 🔥 Real-World Example One BNI member went from showing up in shorts and flip-flops… to wearing a suit. The result? 👉 Immediate increase in referrals 👉 Higher trust from other members 👉 A completely different professional perception Because like Toby explains—people don’t just hear what you say… they see what you represent. 💡 Key Takeaway - Your wardrobe isn’t just clothing—it’s a business tool. 🎯 Action Steps You Can Take Today: 👔 Start with ONE key piece (a fitted jacket or suit) 🧵 Tailor the clothes you already own for better fit 🧼 Focus on grooming and presentation 🎯 Dress for the room you want to win in—not the one you’re comfortable in 💼 Treat your wardrobe like an investment in your business 🌎 Follow Toby on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pearcebespokesandiego/ Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

April 28, 2026Episode 12842 min

Episode 128 – Instagram Isn’t About Followers (It’s About Sales) | Social Media Strategy That Actually Converts w/ Alaisja Rodrigues

If your social media isn’t generating real business… you’re focusing on the wrong metrics. In this episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, host Andy Cruz sits down with Instagram strategist Alaisja Rodrigues (Social Girl Marketing) to break down what actually works in 2026 when it comes to turning content into clients. This is not about going viral. This is about building a community that feeds your business for life. With over 9 years of experience and 400+ businesses served, Alaisja shares a proven framework for how entrepreneurs, BNI members, and business owners can use social media to create connection, conversation, and conversion. 🚀 In This Episode You’ll Learn: ✅ Why followers and views don’t equal revenue ✅ The difference between influencer content vs business growth content ✅ The “3 C’s” framework: connection → conversation → conversion ✅ How to structure your content for top, middle, and bottom funnel ✅ Why most people fail on Instagram (and don’t even realize it) ✅ How to optimize your profile for SEO + credibility instantly ✅ The biggest mistake business owners make with their bio ✅ How to turn your Instagram into a lead-generating machine ✅ Why engagement (not posting) is what actually moves the needle 🔥 Key Takeaway Social media isn’t about attention… it’s about intentional strategy. If your content doesn’t: 👉 Attract the right people 👉 Build trust 👉 Guide them toward action …it won’t convert. As shared in this episode, the goal is to build a community that feeds your business for life—not chase temporary views. 💡 Action Steps You Can Start Today: 📱 Optimize your Instagram name + bio for search (SEO matters) 🎯 Focus your content on ONE clear niche 📊 Structure your content: 40% awareness / 40% trust / 20% conversion 💬 Start real conversations (comments, DMs, engagement strategy) 🚀 Treat social media like a business tool—not entertainment 🌎 Follow Alaisja on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/socialgirlmarketing_/ Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

April 21, 2026Episode 12731 min

Episode 127 – Creators Roundtable: Why Your Social Media Isn’t Working and How to Fix It in 2026

If your social media isn’t bringing you business… it’s not the platform. It’s the strategy. In this episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, host Andy Cruz sits down with digital marketing expert Danny Quesada to break down exactly what’s working in social media in 2026—and why most business owners are getting it wrong. From content fatigue to inconsistent posting, Danny shares a clear roadmap for how BNI members, entrepreneurs, and small business owners can finally use social media to generate visibility, credibility, and real leads. In this Episode you’ll learn: ✅ Why posting content alone is NOT enough anymore ✅ The #1 mistake business owners make on social media ✅ How to create a simple content strategy that actually works ✅ The difference between top, middle, and bottom funnel content ✅ Why consistency beats creativity (every time) ✅ How to build trust and authority online before asking for business ✅ The real reason your audience isn’t engaging with your content ✅ How to use social media to grow your BNI chapter and attract visitors ✅ Why video content is no longer optional in 2026 👇 If you found value in this episode: 👍 Like the video 🔔 Subscribe for weekly business & personal growth conversations 📤 Share this with a member who’s been putting off social media Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter

April 14, 2026Episode 12631 min

Episode 126 - What if the real value of networking isn’t referrals… but who you become in the process?

In this powerful episode of the BNI San Diego Podcast, we sit down with men’s life coach Soleiman Bolour to uncover the hidden, intangible benefits of BNI that most members overlook. From personal growth and confidence to deeper relationships and mindset shifts, this conversation goes far beyond business transactions. If you’ve ever questioned your ROI in networking—or wondered if it’s “worth it”—this episode will completely reframe how you measure success. 💡 In this episode, you’ll learn: ✅ The difference between ROI (Return on Investment) and ROTI (Return on Time Invested) ✅ Why most men struggle to open up—and how community changes that ✅ How BNI builds confidence, communication skills, and leadership ✅ The hidden power of relationships over referrals ✅ A simple question that instantly strengthens any connection: “Who do I know that you need to know?” ✅ Why people join for referrals… but stay for the people ✅ Before you decide if networking is working… ask yourself: Who have you become since you started? Whether you’re a business owner, entrepreneur, or someone looking to grow personally and professionally, this episode will challenge how you think about success, community, and connection. 👇 If you found value in this episode: 👍 Like the video 🔔 Subscribe for weekly business & personal growth conversations 📤 Share this with someone who needs a new perspective on networking Have a topic you’d like us to highlight? Please share with us via email at podcasts@bnisd.com. Visit us online: https://bnisd.comBNI is the world's most successful organization of its type in the world. Members pass millions of referrals which translates to billions of dollars in business.BNI San Diego(619) 255-2620Visit a chapter: https://bnisd.com/en-US/findachapter