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Becoming My Stronger Me

Becoming My Stronger Me

Hosted by Nassim

Episodes

177

Latest episode

Aug 2026

Language

EN-US

About the show

"Becoming My Stronger Me” is a podcast designed to help you become stronger in mind, body, and heart. Season 1 - Like 47 million other Americans, I voluntarily left my successful full-time career to pursue, well, whatever was next. We’ll call this “my great resignation.” As you get to know me, you’ll see that I’m a type-A planner. So to make a life choice without some grand detailed master plan on the other side was unheard of. But now, 2 years later, it was the best decision of my life. Join me as I share my story, questions I asked myself (or wish I had), missteps I made (and how to avoid them), the effect this had on me and everyone around me, and other musings that helped me to become my stronger me. Season 2 - The Mental Performance Series is dedicated to exploring the intricate relationship between mental performance, sports excellence, leadership, and personal growth. We’ll dive deep into the psychology behind peak performance in athletics, leadership roles, and everyday life. Whether you're an athlete looking to optimize your mental game on the field, a leader seeking to inspire and motivate your team, or an individual striving for personal growth and success, this series provides practical tips, actionable strategies, and inspiring stories to help you unlock your full potential and become your stronger you. Check out additional resources online: (https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com) and IG (@strongerme)!

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August 17, 2026Episode 3323 min

Emotions are Data, Not Problems

Text me your thoughts!What if the emotion isn’t the problem? What if the way we interpret it is?In the first episode of the Emotions & Regulation mini-series, Coach Nassim challenges one of the most common assumptions in sport: that certain emotions help us perform while others need to be controlled, hidden, or eliminated.Drawing from emotion science, affective neuroscience, developmental psychology, and research on emotional granularity, this episode explores a foundational idea in Coach Nassim’s approach to mental performance: emotions are data.Nervousness, frustration, disappointment, fear, excitement, and even anger can provide valuable information about what matters to us, what feels uncertain, and how we’re interpreting the situation in front of us. The goal isn’t to become emotionless. It’s to become better at recognizing what we feel, understanding what that emotion may be communicating, and choosing what to do with that information.High performance doesn’t require emotions to disappear. It requires learning how to perform with them.In this episode, you’ll explore why emotions are information rather than obstacles, how the brain makes meaning of emotional experiences, why accurately naming emotions matters, how emotions interact with attention and performance, and how curiosity can replace judgment when difficult feelings arise.Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

August 10, 2026Episode 3238 min

Conversation with Juelle Love

Text me your thoughts!What does it take to pursue your dream of playing professional soccer while staying grounded in your purpose along the way?In this episode of the Becoming My Stronger Me podcast, Coach Nassim sits down with Juelle Love—a professional soccer player, Puerto Rico Women's National Team player, and leader dedicated to growing the game for the next generation.Originally from Philadelphia, Juelle's soccer journey took her from elite youth competition and the Olympic Development Program to standout collegiate careers at the University of Pittsburgh and Creighton University. After earning both her bachelor's degree in Finance and Business Analytics and her master's degree in Finance, she continued pursuing her passion for the game at the professional level while representing Puerto Rico on the international stage.Today, Juelle is not only competing professionally but also investing in the future of women's soccer through her work with Love City FC, where she is passionate about creating opportunities for young athletes to grow as confident leaders both on and off the field.Juelle's story is one of perseverance, humility, and purpose—a reminder that success isn't just measured by the level you reach, but by the impact you have on others along the way.Connect with Juelle and Love City FC:https://www.instagram.com/juellelove/https://www.linkedin.com/in/juelle-love-703784183/https://www.instagram.com/lovecityfc/https://www.lovecityfc.com/If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with an athlete, coach, or parent who believes the lessons learned through sport can shape a lifetime.Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

August 3, 2026Episode 3135 min

Conversation with Tony Medrano

Text me your thoughts!What if the key to performing at your highest level isn't just training harder—but understanding your body better?In this episode, Coach Nassim sits down with Tony Medrano—a former U.S. Navy officer, three-time Ironman triathlete, serial technology entrepreneur, and the CEO and Co-Founder of LongevityPlan.AI.Tony's journey has taken him from military service to endurance sports to building innovative technology companies. Along the way, he's become passionate about helping people optimize not only how they perform today, but how they live for decades to come.Through LongevityPlan.AI, Tony and his team are transforming the way people approach health by combining artificial intelligence, wearable technology, biomarker testing, physician-guided care, and personalized insights to help individuals improve their performance, healthspan, and longevity.Whether you're an athlete striving for peak performance, a leader looking to sustain high performance over time, or simply someone who wants to live a healthier, more intentional life, this conversation offers valuable insights into maximizing both performance and longevity.Connect with Tony:https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonymedrano/https://longevityplan.ai/If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who wants to perform better, recover smarter, and live longer.Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

July 27, 2026Episode 3058 min

Conversation with Ricky Scruggs

Text me your thoughts!What if your biggest obstacle to peak performance isn't your talent or preparation—but your need for approval?In this episode of the Becoming My Stronger Me podcast, Coach Nassim sits down with Ricky Scruggs—founder of Centerfield Coaching & Consulting, former professional baseball player, performance coach, and author of The Champion Within.After years of competing at a high level and working with athletes and leaders, Ricky discovered that many high performers unknowingly tie their identity to results, achievements, and the opinions of others. He calls this approval addiction, and it's one of the biggest barriers to performing freely and consistently.Drawing from his experiences in professional baseball, along with performance psychology, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), theology, and practical mental skills, Ricky developed the Champion Performance Model—a holistic framework designed to help people stop renting their identity from outcomes and start competing from a place of freedom, confidence, and purpose.If you've ever questioned your worth after a poor performance, felt defined by your results, or struggled to separate who you are from what you do, this conversation will challenge your perspective and equip you with tools to build lasting confidence.Connect with Ricky:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ricky-scruggs-coaching/Website: https://www.rickyscruggs.com/Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

July 20, 2026Episode 2939 min

Conversation with Therese Cooper

Text me your thoughts!What does it take to compete at the highest levels of soccer, transition into leadership beyond the game, and continue inspiring others decades later?In this episode, Coach Nassim sits down with Therese Wolden Cooper, one of the most accomplished players in James Madison University (JMU) women's soccer history.A native of Norway, Therese helped transform the JMU women's soccer program into a national contender during one of the most successful eras in its history. An explosive attacking player, she finished her collegiate career among the program's all-time leaders in goals, assists, and points, earning multiple conference honors while helping lead the Dukes to NCAA Tournament appearances and conference championships. Her impact on the program was so significant that she was selected for induction into the James Madison University Athletics Hall of Fame.After her playing career, Therese continued to make an impact through coaching, leadership, and mentoring, carrying the lessons she learned on the field into every stage of life.Whether you're an athlete, coach, parent, or simply someone striving to become your stronger self, Therese's story is a powerful reminder that the greatest victories often extend far beyond the game.Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

July 13, 2026Episode 2814 min

Flow State—What the Research Says

Text me your thoughts!What does it really mean to be “in the zone”?In this final episode of our Focus, Attention, and Flow mini-series, Coach Nassim explores the science behind flow state and separates research from common misconceptions. Drawing on decades of performance psychology research, this episode examines what flow is, why it happens, and why trying to force it often has the opposite effect.Whether you’re an athlete, coach, parent, or performer, this episode offers practical insights into one of the most fascinating topics in mental performance.Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

July 6, 2026Episode 2713 min

Training Attention Like a Skill

Text me your thoughts!Can attention actually be trained?In this episode of Becoming My Stronger Me, Coach Nassim explores the science behind focus, attention, and mental performance. Drawing from sport psychology, cognitive science, and performance research, we break down one of the biggest myths in sport—that focus is something athletes either have or don’t have.You’ll learn why attention is a trainable skill, how elite performers recover from distraction, what Attentional Control Theory teaches us about pressure and anxiety, and why mindfulness is less about clearing your mind and more about redirecting your attention.Whether you're an athlete looking to improve concentration, a coach helping players perform under pressure, or a parent supporting athletic development, this episode provides practical, research-backed insights into building stronger attentional skills.Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

June 29, 2026Episode 2616 min

Why Focus is Harder than Ever

Text me your thoughts!If you've ever been told to "just focus," this episode is for you.In the first episode of our Focus, Attention, and Flow mini-series, Coach Nassim explores why maintaining attention has become increasingly difficult in today's high-stimulation world. Drawing from research on attention, cognitive load, distraction, and multitasking, this conversation breaks down what focus actually is, how attention works, and why so many athletes struggle to stay present under pressure.You'll learn why attention is a limited resource, how modern environments compete for your focus, the hidden costs of multitasking, and why what looks like poor focus is often cognitive overload. Coach Nassim also explores how attention develops across childhood and adolescence, why emotions influence focus, and what separates elite performers from everyone else when distractions inevitably show up.Whether you're an athlete trying to perform consistently, a coach looking to create better learning environments, or a parent supporting a developing athlete, this episode provides a science-backed foundation for understanding one of the most important skills in performance.Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

June 22, 2026Episode 2544 min

Conversation with Kate Crane

Text me your thoughts!In this episode of the Becoming My Stronger Me podcast, I sit down with Kate Crane, founder of Direction Over Perfection, former high-level equestrian athlete, and mentor dedicated to helping young adults navigate life and career decisions with greater confidence and clarity.Kate's journey is a powerful reminder that growth is rarely a straight line. From competing in the demanding world of elite horse jumping—where success depends on trust, adaptability, emotional regulation, and resilience—to building a successful business career and eventually founding Direction Over Perfection, she has learned firsthand that progress is often more important than perfection.In our conversation, we explore the lessons that high-level sport teaches about confidence, self-trust, and handling pressure. We discuss the dangers of perfectionism, why so many high achievers struggle with uncertainty, and how embracing a mindset of direction over perfection can help us move forward even when we don't have all the answers.Kate also shares insights from her experiences as an athlete, business leader, and mentor, offering practical wisdom for anyone navigating transitions, setbacks, or big decisions in sport, career, or life.https://www.directionoverperfection.com/Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

June 15, 2026Episode 2439 min

Conversation with Kelly Findley

Text me your thoughts!In this episode, I sit down with Kelly Findley—a longtime collegiate soccer coach, former professional player, and mentor who has spent decades developing athletes and leaders at the highest levels of the game.Kelly’s journey spans over 20 years in college soccer, with head coaching roles at programs like Liberty University, NC State, and Butler. But what makes this conversation so powerful isn’t just the experience—it’s the evolution. After years of building teams and competing at the highest levels, Kelly has shifted his focus toward something deeper: helping athletes and coaches understand who they are beyond the game, and how that identity shapes how they perform.In our conversation, we explore what it really means to develop the whole person—not just the player. We talk about identity, purpose, and the environments that either unlock or limit growth. Kelly shares insights on how coaches can move beyond tactics to create transformational experiences, and how athletes can begin to separate who they are from what they do.This is a conversation about performance—but not in the way most people think. It’s about the foundation underneath it all: clarity, alignment, and the courage to do the deeper work that ultimately drives how you show up.This episode is for athletes, coaches, and parents who want to move beyond surface-level development and truly understand what it takes to grow—on the field and in life.Learn more: https://coachesonmission.com/Connect with Kelly: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-findley-a88167107/Support the showWebsite: https://www.becomingmystrongerme.com/IG: @strongermeTikTok: @becomingmystrongerme

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