#137: The In-Law You're Wary Of Might Be Your Family's Secret Weapon with Josh & Steph Borowski, Hard Ground Podcast
When someone marries into a farming family, they bring more than a new surname to the table. They bring different experiences, different questions and a fresh view of how things are done. So why can that feel so threatening? In Episode 137 of the AgriCoach Wealth & Wisdom Podcast, Ben Law is joined by Josh and Steph Borowski, the farming couple behind the Hard Ground Podcast, for a frank and often funny conversation about in-laws, family relationships and family farm succession. Josh and Steph know these dynamics from both sides: growing up within a farming family and marrying into one. They talk openly about the assumptions, loyalties and unspoken expectations that can make finding your place harder than it needs to be. Ben was the first guest on the Hard Ground Podcast earlier this year and recently joined Josh and Steph for their Hard Ground Round Table event. They enjoyed the conversations so much that bringing Josh and Steph onto this show was an easy decision. Together, they consider why a reasonable question can land like criticism, what happens when partners hear about family meetings second-hand, and where in-laws belong in conversations about the future. If your family is welcoming a partner, preparing for succession or finding that familiar disagreements keep resurfacing, this conversation offers plenty to think about. Could the person you’re wary of be someone who helps your family move forward? Listen to the full conversation with Josh and Steph. Want to hear where the connection began? Ben was the first guest on the Hard Ground Podcast earlier this year. Listen to “ Farm Succession Is Breaking Families. Here’s Why — With Ben Law ” on Apple Podcasts. If this podcast has ever added value to your farming business, we'd love for you to leave us a rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. https://pod.link/1598835360 Succession starts well before handing over the reins. Give your farming family the time and space to plan ahead while the business is strong to maximise opportunity and choice. Join the waitlist for our 2027 Succession Ready Roadmap Workshop . We’re running just one in 2027, and the 2026 workshop filled almost entirely from the waitlist. You can join at agricoach.com.au/takeaction ----------------------- Ben Law is a coach to some of Australia's most successful farming families. He was raised on the land — three generations of farming in his blood — and has spent almost 30 years and more than 40,000 hours alongside farming families, first as their financial adviser and now as their coach. Along the way he learned the truth nobody talks about: what makes or breaks a family legacy isn't the money — it's whether the family can communicate, get aligned, and prepare the next generation before succession arrives. That's what this podcast is about. Each fortnight Ben sits down with farming families, trusted advisers and industry experts to unpack how to build a family that thrives across generations — strong in business, strong in relationships, and set up to hand over the farm without losing each other. Disclaimer: The information contained in this podcast is general in nature and for education purposes only. It is not financial advice. It is not legal advice. No one should act on the information without appropriate specific advice for your particular circumstances. Ben Law is a former financial advisor but is no longer licensed and cannot and will not give you specific or personal advice in this podcast. The Financial Bloke Group Pty Ltd accepts no responsibility for any loss or damage occasioned by any person acting or refraining from action as a result of reliance on the information in this podcast. ...


