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A Better Divorce with Andrea Vacca is for those contemplating divorce or in the middle of the process and want to hear expert advice about how to navigate the emotional, legal, and financial issues in a more positive way, so they not only survive, but THRIVE after their divorce.

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August 18, 202612 min

The Parenting Plan That Prevents Future Fights

When couples decide to separate, the conversation about the children can feel overwhelming, and the phrase "parenting plan" often arrives loaded with anxiety. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca walks parents through exactly what to think about before they sit down to negotiate. Her central principle is deceptively simple: a good parenting plan is specific enough to prevent conflict and flexible enough to accommodate your real life. Vague plans breed arguments. Rigid plans crack under the weight of everyday changes. The work is finding the balance between them. Andrea moves through the building blocks that a durable plan should cover, starting with legal custody and the decision-making process that keeps joint custody functional when parents disagree. She explains physical custody and how a child's age shapes the right schedule, from short, frequent transitions for toddlers to longer blocks and real agency for teenagers. She digs into the sections that trip up even cooperative co-parents: holidays, school breaks, and vacations, along with the family traditions and travel permissions that a generic online template will never capture on its own. The episode closes on the details parents rarely anticipate but always need: communication and logistics, a relocation clause that defines how far apart two homes can be before the schedule has to change, and, most important of all, a modification process built in from the start. As Andrea puts it, you can't address everything up front, but you can address how to address everything later. The families she has seen thrive after divorce are the ones who took the time to get this right, thinking not just about this year but about the next fifteen. Key Takeaways ● A good parenting plan is specific enough to prevent conflict and flexible enough to accommodate real life. Vague plans create arguments; rigid plans break under everyday change. ● Joint legal custody only works with a clear process for resolving disagreements: try to resolve directly, then use a mediator or parenting coordinator before ever going to court. ● Physical custody schedules should match your children's ages. Young children do better with shorter, more frequent transitions, while school-age children and teenagers need longer blocks and more agency. ● Holidays, school breaks, and vacations deserve detailed attention. Start with a template, then customize for your family's traditions, decide how to alternate or split, and make sure the holiday schedule overrides the weekly one when they conflict. ● Build in the practical details: communication tools, transportation, notice requirements, and a relocation clause that defines how close parents must live to keep the schedule. ● Build a modification process in from the very start, such as an annual review, so you won't need a lawyer or judge to manage every future adjustment. Connect with Andrea Vacca ● Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/ ● Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq ● Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw ● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/ #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

August 4, 202615 min

Decision Fatigue in Divorce: Why Exhausted Choices Cost You Later

You sat down to review the proposed parenting schedule, read the same paragraph three times, and told yourself you'd come back to it. But you didn't. Or worse, you said yes to a proposal, not because it was right, but because you were done. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca names the specific kind of exhaustion that shows up in divorce. It isn't sadness or fear. It's quieter than that, and it's more dangerous, because financial arrangements, parenting schedules, and asset splits don't come with do-overs. Andrea reframes decision fatigue as a predictable byproduct of a process that asks too much of people already running on empty. She's watched clients who run large corporations and navigate Fortune 500 boardrooms freeze when asked to choose between two custody provisions, proof that depletion doesn't care how capable you are. Reactive choices made in that state, she explains, are usually deferred regret: the client who rented a new apartment before any agreement on how two homes would be paid for, or the one who said yes in the third hour of a mediation session only to reverse it days later, seeding months of distrust and renegotiation. The heart of the episode is a practical shift in thinking. Your goal in divorce isn't to make more decisions, it's to make better ones, and better decisions require the one resource most people forget to protect: their mental energy. Andrea walks through the myths that make this harder, from believing that feeling stuck is a character flaw to assuming you should push through alone, and offers a simple set of questions to run before any major choice. Clarity, she argues, isn't something you force. It's something you create by slowing down, simplifying what you can, and building the right support around you. Key Takeaways ● Decision fatigue in divorce is a distinct kind of exhaustion, and choices made from depletion tend to become regret you have to live with later. ● Wanting to avoid hard decisions isn't weakness or indecisiveness. It's a survival response and a signal that you don't yet have the conditions to decide well. ● Faster isn't better. Rushing to end the discomfort often creates more work downstream: revisiting terms, renegotiating, and eroding goodwill between spouses. ● Build in intentional pauses. Agree up front, before you're in the moment, that no one will demand immediate decisions and that due diligence is expected. ● Divorce is not a character test to pass alone. Distributing the legal, financial, and emotional load across the right professionals is a strategy, not a crutch. ● Before any major decision, ask: Is my energy high enough to think clearly? Do I have the information I need? Am I deciding from a place of choice? If any answer is no, pause. Timestamps 00:00 The quiet exhaustion no one warns you about 02:26 A framework for making better decisions, not more 03:31 When ripping off the band-aid backfires 04:37 Myth 1: Feeling stuck means you're indecisive 07:48 Myth 2: Push through and resolve it fast 09:52 Myth 3: You should handle it all alone 12:48 Three questions to ask before any major decision Connect with Andrea Vacca ● Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/ ● Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq ● Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw ● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/ #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

July 21, 202613 min

Legal Separation vs. Divorce vs. Postnup: What's the Difference?

Few decisions carry more weight, or more confusion, than choosing how to formally restructure a marriage. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca cuts through the noise around three commonly conflated options: legal separation, divorce, and the postnuptial agreement. Rather than pushing listeners toward a single answer, she reframes the question itself. Most people arrive asking "What should I do?" Andrea's guidance is to ask instead, "What do I actually need right now?" An informed, intentional decision, she argues, protects you far better than a reactive one. Andrea walks through what each path actually means in practice. Legal separation, she explains, is more than living apart: it requires a signed, binding agreement covering parenting, child support, spousal support, and property division, and it can be the right tool when there is genuine uncertainty, when financial or health insurance reasons favor staying married, or when a couple wants structured space without permanence. Divorce is the full and final legal termination of a marriage, best suited to situations where at least one party is ready for closure. A postnuptial agreement, meanwhile, is created during a marriage to bring clarity after a significant shift, whether a betrayal, an inheritance, or a major life change, and is more often a hedge that strengthens a marriage than a step toward ending one. Drawing on decades of New York family law practice, Andrea illustrates each option with real client scenarios, from couples in their early sixties who stay legally married to bridge the gap to Medicare, to a mediation client whose postnup tied financial accountability to recovery from addiction. Her closing message is clear: there is no single right path, only the one that best fits your situation, values, needs, and readiness, and you deserve a process that supports you with dignity, clarity, and thoughtful decision making. Key Takeaways ● Reframe the question from "What should I do?" to "What do I actually need right now?" so your decision is intentional rather than reactive. ● Legal separation requires a signed, binding agreement covering parenting, support, and property division. It is not the same as simply living apart. ● Legal separation can make sense amid genuine uncertainty, for health insurance or financial reasons, or when a couple wants structured space without a permanent decision. ● Divorce is the full and final termination of a marriage, and under no-fault law in every state, only one party needs to decide the marriage is over. ● A postnuptial agreement is typically a proactive tool to strengthen communication and create clarity, not a sign that a marriage is failing. ● Divorce does not have to be adversarial. The process you choose, whether collaborative divorce, mediation, or litigation, shapes the entire experience. Connect with Andrea Vacca ● Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/ ● Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq ● Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw ● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/ #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

July 7, 20267 min

High-Conflict Divorce Doesn't Mean You Have to Go to Court

When a marriage has been defined by conflict, whether it is open arguments or long stretches of silence, most people assume divorce will have to be settled in court. If we can't agree on anything now, the thinking goes, how could we possibly reach an agreement on our own? In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca takes that assumption apart. Drawing on her work as a non-adversarial divorce attorney, she explains why the courtroom is the single worst environment for couples already locked in conflict, and why the adversarial attorneys typically hired to take a case to court tend to widen the gap between spouses rather than close it. Andrea makes the case for the collaborative divorce process as the approach best suited to high-conflict dynamics. Instead of a slow, win-lose battle that can stretch on for years in New York, collaborative divorce surrounds a couple with support: two non-adversarial attorneys committed in writing to staying out of court, a neutral financial professional who can see the whole picture and ease the trust issues that often fuel conflict, and a family specialist or divorce coach who helps manage communication, emotions, and the wellbeing of any children involved. The point is not victory; it is a resolution that works for both people and looks forward rather than relitigating the past. She grounds the conversation in real practice, describing collaborative cases involving high-stress careers, businesses, inheritances, and years of broken communication, and she is honest about the difficulty of sitting across from a spouse you are struggling with. The difference, she argues, is the team behind you. Transforming a high-conflict marriage into a lower-conflict divorce is not a fantasy, but it does require the right help, the right process, and a willingness to stop handing your future to a judge. Key Takeaways ● Court tends to escalate conflict rather than resolve it, pulling couples who are only inches apart toward opposite extremes. ● A high-conflict marriage does not mean a judge has to make your decisions; it is not automatically a reason to litigate. ● The collaborative divorce process is specifically designed for high-conflict dynamics and the support they require. ● A collaborative team includes two non-adversarial attorneys, a neutral financial professional, and a family specialist or divorce coach. ● Court in New York can take years, keeping couples focused on blame and the past instead of the future. ● Before choosing a path, talk to a collaboratively trained attorney, and consider speaking with a litigator and a mediator too, so you choose the right process for you. Connect with Andrea Vacca ● Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/ ● Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq ● Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw ● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/ #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

June 23, 202611 min

Planning for Tough Conversations With a Resistant Spouse

Few moments in a divorce carry more weight than the first one: the conversation where you finally say the words out loud. In this solo episode of A Better Divorce Podcast, Andrea Vacca speaks directly to the thoughtful, emotionally intelligent people who have been rehearsing that conversation for weeks, months, sometimes years. They are not looking for a fight. They want to protect their children, their privacy, their financial stability, and their own well-being. And so they wait, paralyzed by the fear of how a spouse might react with anger, retaliation, or the silent treatment. Andrea reframes that hesitation. You cannot control your spouse's reaction, she explains, but you can control how you prepare for the conversation, and that preparation is what reduces conflict rather than creating it. She walks through two layers of readiness: strategic planning (clarifying your objectives, understanding the financial and parenting implications, and speaking with a lawyer before you ever raise the subject) and emotional planning (regulating your own response, choosing language that avoids blame and ultimatums, and resisting the urge to ask permission for a divorce you have every right to pursue). The episode also offers a script for the hard cases. If a spouse responds with the same anger or dismissal you have always known, Andrea counsels against matching their intensity: state your intention calmly, decline to argue, and step away to revisit it later. Volatility, she notes, is useful information. It signals that you will need a more structured path forward, whether collaborative divorce or a highly structured mediation, with non-adversarial attorneys, financial neutrals, and divorce coaches who build the guardrails that protect your privacy, your finances, and your children from unnecessary exposure to conflict. Being calm, she reminds listeners, does not mean surrendering your voice. Key Takeaways ● You cannot control your spouse's reaction, but you can control how you prepare for the conversation, and preparation reduces conflict rather than creating it. ● Strategic planning means clarifying your objectives, understanding the financial and parenting implications, and consulting a lawyer before you raise the subject. ● Emotional regulation is one of your most powerful tools: avoid blame, accusations, ultimatums, and rehashing the past. ● You do not need to ask for a divorce or get permission; every state allows no-fault divorce where only one spouse wants it. ● Lead with common ground, such as protecting the children, and frame the conversation around next steps rather than winning. ● If your spouse reacts with repeated volatility, treat it as helpful information that you need a structured process and the right professional support. Connect with Andrea Vacca: ● Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/ ● Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq ● Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw ● Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/ #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

June 12, 202615 min

The Financial Documents You Need Before You Do Anything Else

Before an attorney is hired, before a spouse is told, before anything official happens, there's one quiet act of preparation that changes the trajectory of a divorce: getting clear on your financial picture. In this solo episode, Andrea Vacca walks through exactly what that looks like and why it matters so much. She opens with the story of a former client, a stay-at-home parent who arrived at her first consultation already fluent in the family's income, assets, account locations, home value, and debts. That clarity, Andrea explains, didn't just speed the process along, it gave both client and attorney genuine confidence in the options on the table. Most people, by contrast, start gathering documents after the process has already begun, when accounts have shifted, passwords have changed, and time has quietly eroded access. Andrea organizes the work into four categories: foundation documents (prenups, postnups, wills, trusts, marriage license, life insurance), assets (bank and investment accounts, real estate, vehicles, retirement accounts, businesses), debts (credit cards, medical debt, student loans, tax liabilities), and income and tax documentation (W-2s, 1099s, pay stubs, two to three years of returns with all schedules). For each, she explains what to collect, how titling and timing affect division, and why a debt in your spouse's name can still land partly on your shoulders. The episode closes with the most common mistakes Andrea sees, waiting too long, overlooking digital and crypto assets, failing to back up records, and relying on a spouse to surface everything, and a strong case for bringing in a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst early. Gathering documents, she reminds listeners, is not a declaration of war. It's information that already belongs to you, and it's the foundation every other decision in a divorce will rest on. Key Takeaways ● Financial clarity before filing is the single biggest predictor of a calmer, better-informed divorce process. ● Foundation documents like prenuptial and postnuptial agreements should be located and reviewed by an attorney as early as possible, because language and signing conditions determine whether they hold up. ● A complete asset picture includes the easy-to-miss items: crypto, PayPal, Venmo, online-only bank accounts, investment apps, safety deposit box contents, and any business ownership stakes. ● Debt in your spouse's name can still be allocated to you as marital debt, and debt in your name may be treated as marital, so liabilities deserve the same attention as assets. ● Tax returns often reveal accounts and income streams that appear nowhere else, making two to three years of full returns with schedules essential. ● A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst can model your future lifestyle and long-term security, not just inventory what exists today. Resources Divorce Checklist: https://www.vaccalaw.com/divorcefinancialchecklist/ Connect ● A Better Divorce Podcast: https://www.vaccalaw.com/a-better-divorce-podcast ● Vacca Family Law Group: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● Andrea Vacca on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

May 28, 202616 min

Choosing Your Divorce Process: Litigation, Mediation, or Collaborative

One of the earliest decisions in any divorce is also one of the least examined. Andrea Vacca opens this episode with a hard truth: most people don't actually choose a divorce process. They default to one based on fear, a friend's horror story, or whichever attorney they happened to meet first. The result is a mismatch between the path and the family, and that mismatch is where unnecessary conflict, expense, and emotional damage tend to grow. In this solo episode, Andrea walks through the three primary divorce processes available to New York couples and lays out who each one is actually designed for. Litigation, she explains, exists for a reason and can be the right structure when safety is at risk, when a spouse refuses to disclose finances, or when good-faith negotiation is impossible. Mediation, by contrast, depends heavily on balance of power, transparency, and the ability to compromise, and it can quietly stall when one party uses delay as strategy. Collaborative divorce, the third option, brings each spouse a collaboratively trained attorney plus a neutral mental health professional and a neutral financial expert, all committed in writing to resolving the case outside of court. Andrea reframes the choice itself as a Goldilocks problem: litigation can run too hard, mediation can run too soft, and for many families the collaborative process lands just right. Her better divorce tip cuts through the noise. The goal is not to win your divorce. It is to move through it in a way that protects the life you want on the other side, and the process you choose is the single biggest lever you have to make that possible. Key Takeaways ● Divorce is both a legal process and a human one, so the path you choose must match your family dynamics, not someone else's story. ● Litigation is a last resort built for the most extreme cases, including safety concerns, refusal to disclose finances, or a spouse who will not engage. ● Mediation works best when both spouses have relative balance of power, can negotiate in good faith, and genuinely want a peaceful resolution. ● Collaborative divorce pairs each spouse with their own attorney plus neutral mental health and financial professionals, with everyone committed in writing to staying out of court. ● Advocacy and adversarial behavior are not the same thing, and the right process protects your dignity while still protecting your interests. ● The right question is not which process is cheapest or fastest, but which one fits who you and your spouse actually are. Timestamps 00:00 The decision most people don't realize they're making 00:20 Welcome to A Better Divorce 00:40 Litigation: when court is the right structure 01:05 Mediation: neutral guidance toward a shared agreement 01:30 Collaborative divorce: a structured, team-based path 01:50 A better divorce tip: choose the process, then the lawyer Resources: Divorce Checklist: https://www.vaccalaw.com/divorcefinancialchecklist Connect Connect with Andrea Vacca: * Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/ * Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/ #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

May 12, 202612 min

Divorce Myths That Trap High-Conflict Avoiders

Andrea Vacca returns with a clear premise: how you divorce matters as much as the decision to divorce itself. Drawing on three decades of New York family law practice and her recent certification as a positive psychology coach, Andrea makes the case that the cultural script around divorce, the one shaped by movies, songs, and the bitter splits we witnessed growing up, is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Expect a war, get a war. Choose intention instead, and the entire process changes shape. This solo episode lays out the mindset and infrastructure required for a divorce that doesn't destroy you, your finances, or your children's sense of family. Andrea introduces the idea of a North Star, a forward-facing vision of the life you want in two to five years, and explains how using it as a decision-making filter keeps you from getting pulled back into the grievances of the past. She walks through the three professionals who belong on every divorce team (a non-adversarial attorney, a divorce coach or therapist, and a certified divorce financial analyst) and explains why that investment pays back in durable agreements and fewer post-divorce disputes. Andrea also reframes what success looks like, moving away from cultural notions of winning and toward measurable wins like respectful co-parenting exchanges, a financial agreement that actually supports the life you want, and the kind of low-drama relationship with an ex that lets you sit in the same room at a grandchild's birthday. She shares a personal story about her own father's decade of silence toward her mother to illustrate the generational cost of unaddressed anger, and challenges listeners to play the long game. Key Takeaways: ● Why "waiting for the right time" can erode your finances, leverage, and parenting options ● The risk of agreeing to terms at the kitchen table before you understand your full picture ● When mediation is the wrong fit, and why a power imbalance changes everything ● How the collaborative divorce process gives conflict-avoidant spouses a voice and professional guardrails ● The difference between being cooperative and being unprotected, and how to hold both peace and boundaries Connect ● A Better Divorce Podcast: https://www.vaccalaw.com/a-better-divorce-podcast ● Vacca Family Law Group: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● Andrea Vacca on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

April 28, 202613 min

What I Wish Every Person Knew Before Starting Divorce

There are no degrees in divorce, and most people start the process without knowing what's coming next. In this crash-course episode, Andrea Vacca shares the mindset shifts, truths, and early decisions that save time, money, and goodwill, and set you up for a better life on the other side of your marriage. Key Takeaways: ● Stop trying to "win." Winning is expensive. Focus instead on your interests and the life you want to build. ● You will never feel fully ready. Get comfortable being uncomfortable and take the next step anyway. ● Don't treat your attorney like a therapist. Build a team with a divorce coach, financial neutral, and the right legal counsel so each professional does what they do best. ● How you divorce shapes how you co-parent. Every cutting word compounds and ripples into your children's future relationships. ● Your emotional timeline and legal timeline rarely match. The faster you engage the legal process, the faster you reach the other side. ● Most divorces never see a judge, so don't let your attorney prepare your case as if one will. Hire counsel committed to settlement from day one. ● Financial decisions made out of exhaustion or guilt can haunt you for years. Get accurate modeling before you sign anything. ● Keep children out of the middle at every age. Divorce doesn't damage kids; high-conflict parenting does. Resources: ● Vacca Family Law Group: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● Previous Episode on Your North Star: https://www.vaccalaw.com/podcast Connect: ● A Better Divorce Podcast: https://www.vaccalaw.com/podcast ● Andrea Vacca, Vacca Family Law Group: https://www.vaccalaw.com ● LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca Hashtags: #ABetterDivorce #DivorceAdvice #IntentionalDivorce #DivorceLawyer #PositivePsychology #DivorceCoach #NewYorkDivorce #CoParenting #DivorceSupport #BetterDivorce

April 14, 202616 min

How to Have a Better Divorce (It Starts Here)

Andrea Vacca returns after a year-long hiatus to relaunch A Better Divorce Podcast with a deeply personal and practical episode. Now a certified positive psychology coach in addition to her three decades as a New York divorce attorney, she shares the mindset shifts and strategic steps that separate a good divorce from a destructive one. Key Takeaways: ● How you divorce matters: your mindset determines your process, your outcomes, and your life after marriage. ● Focusing on the past, on blame and resentment, is the through line of every difficult divorce. Looking forward is what creates empowerment. ● Define your North Star: envision your life two to five years from now, then measure every decision against whether it moves you closer to or further from that vision. ● Build a divorce team that includes a non-adversarial attorney, a divorce coach or therapist, and a certified divorce financial analyst. ● Grieving and growing can happen at the same time. Healing does not have to wait until the divorce is final. ● Redefine success: respectful co-parenting, a workable financial agreement, personal dignity, and a low-drama relationship with your ex. Resources: ● Vacca Law: www.vaccalaw.com Connect with Andrea Vacca: Website: https://www.vaccalaw.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreavacca/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AndreaVaccaEsq Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VaccaNYFamilyLaw Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vacca_familylaw/