Working Towards Our Purpose

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What if the problem isn’t your job, but the version of yourself you had to become to succeed in it? Corporate jobs don’t trap us because they’re evil. They trap us because they slowly teach us to disconnect from ourselves. If you're in corporate America and your life looks successful on paper but feels empty in practice, you’re not alone. This podcast is a space for the quiet questions you don’t say out loud at work. We explore the inner side of change: the fear of starting over, self-sabotage, the trap of external expectations, imposter syndrome, and the unsettling moment when you realize someone else’s definition of success isn't enough for you. This isn’t about quitting your job overnight or chasing money, but asking what feels right for you and finding clarity before making your next move. We deliver actionable strategies for complex career transitions. From managing ADHD-related overwhelm at work to overcoming the disconnect of the corporate grind. You’re not broken. You’ve just outgrown the life you built. New episodes weekly.

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June 15, 2026Episode 9914 min

How To Stop Feeling Confused at Work | E99

Have you ever felt confused at your corporate job? Or even like your boss has been gaslighting you? Today we discuss this very issue and how unfair treatment is far too common in the corporate setting. I'll discuss practical strategies that anyone struggling with feeling confused at work can use to protect themselves and regain clarity. You shouldn't have to live in confusion. ✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 – Check In00:53 – Are You Feeling Confused at Work?01:50 – Recognizing Confusion in a Corporate Settings02:43 – You're a Good Employee, But Get Treated Unfairly03:28 – My Personal Experience in Corporate America05:03 – Processing Unfair Treatment06:36 – Advice That Didn't Work for Me07:47 – Why Corporate Confusion Happens08:25 – Write Everything Down10:25 – Talk to a Third Party 12:07 – The Common Sense Drawer 13:16 – Soften Your Inner Critic 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Learn how to stop feeling confused at workDiscover why intentional confusion and gaslighting is so commonDiscussing unfair corporate treatmentUnderstand the importance of writing everything down Find out why talking about it mattersOvercoming confusion at work and how to regain clarityUse these 2 steps to protect your mental health Take back control of your workplace experience 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP MerchFeedback Form WTOP.com

June 8, 2026Episode 9814 min

I Don't Want To Be A High Achiever Anymore | E98

What if you didn't see yourself as a high achiever anymore? What would happen? How would you feel? That's what we talk about in today's episode of Working Towards Our Purpose. I open up about letting go of the identity of "high achiever" and replacing it with peace, calm, and self-compassion instead of the relentless hustle. If you've ever struggled with burnout, the constant pressure to succeed, or the urge to always be productive, this conversation is for you. I share my personal experiences, mindset shifts, and practical reflections on how giving yourself permission to not always do, can spark new purpose and clarity. ✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 Check In01:13 The ‘High Achiever’ Identity03:33 The Downside of Constant Productivity04:43 Burnout, Self-Comparison, & Restlessness06:20 Importance of Relaxing 07:44 Breaking Old High Achiever Patterns09:00 Choosing Calm Over Chaos10:25 Simple Moments of Rest & Reflection12:19 The Difference Between Rest and Numbing Out13:24 Letting Go & Moving Forward 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:How to let go of being a high achieverFinding more calm and clarity in daily lifeConstant productivity and comparison taking a toll on mental healthRedefining what success means Prioritizing rest, self-compassion, and inner calmHigh achiever identity tied with self-worthBreaking the cycle of overachievementGiving yourself permission to just "be" instead of always "doing" 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP MerchFeedback Form WTOP.com

June 1, 2026Episode 9717 min

Overcoming The Fear of Making The Wrong Decision: How to Stop Overthinking | E97

Have you ever been afraid you're making the wrong decision? Does being afraid of making the wrong decision, keep you from making a decision? In this episode, we dive into overcoming the fear of making the wrong choice. We discuss how to tell if you're choices are going to be right for you. Learn how to start trusting your inner voice, even when there's lots of outside influence. We'll talk about how to make the decision that's right for you using your internal alignment when navigating tough choices. If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by indecision or uncertainty, this episode is for you.✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 – Check-In01:42 – The Fear of Making the Wrong Decision03:29 – Struggling With Opinions and Outside Advice05:07 – Leaving Corporate & Taking the Leap06:30 – Lessons from Releasing My First Album08:37 – How Do You Know If You’re Making the Right Decision?10:34 – The Power of Trusting Your Intuition12:37 – Internal vs External Motivation 13:16 – Living Life for the First Time14:42 – Practicing Ownership Over Your Decisions15:29 – Softening Your Inner Critic16:38 – What’s Coming 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Learn how to overcome the fear of making the wrong choiceDiscover how to start trusting your inner voiceUnderstand how outside opinions can cloud your judgment Overcoming uncertainty Learn how to start trusting yourselfFind out how internal motivation leads to more purpose-driven decisions 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP MerchFeedback Form WTOP.com

May 25, 2026Episode 9616 min

The Small Decision That Pulls You Out of Autopilot | E96

Do you ever feel like you're on autopilot? Just going through the motions of life with little control over how things are going? In this episode, we explore this feeling of being on autopilot and what to do to get unstuck. Drawing from both my personal experiences and the inspiring story of musician Petey USA's journey from dead-end jobs to successful music career, we examine the power of micro decisions. And how to use them to reclaim ownership over your life and calm your nervous system. Listen in as I share practical strategies and relatable anecdotes on breaking free from feeling stuck on autopilot.✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 - Check In01:41 - Living on Autopilot?02:59 - Petey's One Simple Change05:04 - The Power of one Decision06:30 - Micro Decisions08:31 - Calming Your Nervous System09:29 - Playfulness and Personal Growth10:27 - Applying Micro Decisions in My Life13:21 - Why Any Decision Is Better Than None14:05 - Letting Life Happen to You15:15 - What’s Your Next Micro Decision?16:02 - Softening Your Inner Critic 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:How to get out of autopilot Learn what Petey did to completely change his lifeDiscover the impact of micro decisionsTaking ownership of your daily actions and choicesMaking no decision is a decision Realize that breaking free from autopilot starts with even the smallest, easiest choiceCalming your nervous system first 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP Merch

May 18, 2026Episode 9517 min

How to Overcome Fear of Failure (One Mindset Shift That Changed Everything) | E95

The fear of failure kept me stuck for a while, but I'm learning to not let it hold me back. In this episode, we dive deep into why we seem to all have this fear of failing. Drawing on my own personal journey, we explore common myths about the fear of failure, break down the roots of why, and at the end I'll share a mindset shift that can help you stop playing into it. If you've let fear of sucking at something stop you before, this episode is for you. ✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 – Check In01:54 – Why Change and Failure Are So Scary03:27 – The Two Sides of Change04:08 – The Role of Our Schooling 06:09 – Dissecting the Fear of Failure07:12 – The Myth of Right Way vs. Wrong Way08:51 – The Hard Way Is Wrong Way10:27 – Why Doing Things the Hard Way Matters12:40 – Childhood Myths About Failure13:32 – Moving Past Fear and Facing Failure14:07 – Exposure Therapy15:51 – How to Start Embracing Failure16:51 – Soften Your Inner Critic17:20 – Closing 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Recognize how the fear of failure can hold you backUnderstand the impact of school on your mindset towards failureBreak down the reasons why we all have a fear of failureLearn why overcoming the fear of failure starts with shifting your mindsetDoing things the “right way” versus the “wrong way”How to use exposure therapy to build your resilienceHow to no longer avoid failure 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP Merch

May 11, 2026Episode 9414 min

Imposter Syndrome Side Effects: Why You Feel Like A Spectator in Your Own Life | E94

What happens when you let impostor syndrome win? In today's episode, we talk about the side effects of imposter syndrome. I share my personal struggle with feeling like an impostor and look back to show how it's affected my life's path. Imposter syndrome can derail your dreams, but with practical strategies and a little help, you can overcome the inner critic that keeps you stuck. The side effects of imposter syndrome are real and the first step toward reclaiming your confidence is talking vulnerably about it. So that's what we're going to do.✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 – Check in00:51 – What Is Imposter Syndrome?02:56 – The Side Effects of Imposter Syndrome04:43 – Career Detours07:05 – Shifting Focus09:00 – The Realities of Imposter Syndrome10:38 – Strategies for Overcoming Imposter Syndrome11:16 – Advice to My Younger Self12:10 – What Would It Feel Like to Believe in Yourself?13:35 – Softening Your Inner Critic 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Imposter syndrome side effectsHow not to derail your dreamsOvercoming imposter syndromeSpeaking your fears out loudFinding self-belief Drive and passion outweigh skillFinding community supportWhat if I believed in myself?Softening Your Inner Critic 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP MerchFeedback Form WTOP.com

May 4, 2026Episode 9318 min

How to Break The Cycle and Rewrite Your Story | E93

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in the same cycle of life, and just can't seem to get out? In this episode, we get into how you can finally break that cycle and rewrite your story. We will ask some questions that will challenge the internal beliefs that shape our path. You'll receive some powerful self-reflection strategies that can help you move from feeling stuck to taking actionable steps forward towards the life you desire. Drawing inspiration from a recent Theo Von podcast, I share honest insights on self-belief, being kind to yourself, and overcoming limiting beliefs. ✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 - Checking In00:59 - Breaking the Cycle01:57 - Key Questions to Ask Yourself03:38 - Do You Really Want to Change?07:14 - Are You Showing Up For Yourself?11:37 - Do You Believe Something is Wrong With You?15:39 - Challenging Our Limiting Beliefs16:31 - Honest Conversations with Yourself17:15 - Softening Your Inner Critic 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Understand how to break the cycleRewriting your own story Discover why self-belief is essentialBeing honest with yourself about what you truly wantShowing up for yourselfOvercoming limiting beliefsCultivating self-confidenceSilence your inner criticPractice self-compassion 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP MerchFeedback Form WTOP.com

April 27, 2026Episode 9218 min

Why Not Having All The Answers, Is Your Answer - How To Trust Yourself | E92

Discover why not having all the answers could be the breakthrough you need to start moving towards your purpose. In this episode, we embrace uncertainty and talk about why it's so hard to start when you don't know where you're going. I share my own struggles with not having all the answers and how letting go, having patience, and putting in consistent effort can help overcome self-doubt and stagnation. Whether you're feeling stuck in a corporate job, overwhelmed, or searching for your purpose, this episode offers actionable tips on using uncertainty as your motivation.✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 – Check In01:01 – Not Having All the Answers 02:26 – Facing Frustration03:19 – Not Seeing the Final Product05:57 – The Power of Being a Beginner06:59 – Patience and Consistent Effort07:37 – The Podcast Journey: Step-by-Step Growth09:16 – Letting Go & Having Patience11:12 – Knowing Yourself & What You Want13:28 – Taking the Right Advice for You14:22 – Consistent Effort in Your Own Direction15:35 – Mental State & Self-Criticism16:32 – Don’t Trust Your Thoughts When You’re Down17:44 – Embracing Uncertainty18:08 – Free Guide 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Embracing uncertaintyNot having all the answers shouldn't stop you from startingPatience and consistent effortComparing yourself to others'Letting go of control, knowing yourself, and putting in consistent effortSelf-criticism and negative thinkingAccepting that you won’t have all the answersFinding motivation to actFollowing your own path 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP MerchFeedback Form WTOP.com

April 20, 2026Episode 9122 min

There’s Nothing Wrong With You — So Why Does It Feel Like You Can’t Keep Up? | E91

When you're in a depressive spiral, why does it feel like you're the only one it happens to? In this episode of Working Towards Our Purpose, we explore that feeling of "something wrong with you". I share my personal experience navigating depression, comparison, and an overactive harsh inner critic that many of us experience. We’ll discuss why it’s common to feel inadequate and how mental health struggles like depression can distort our reality. Tune in for 3 things you can do the next time you find yourself in a spiral feeling like your not good enough.✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📍 Timestamps:00:00 — Check-In01:18 — Feeling Left Behind02:03 — Self-Doubt03:45 — Comparison Spirals05:59 — Feeling Bad for Feeling Bad06:51 — What Depression Is Telling Us09:24 — Three Ways to Feel Better When Your Spiraling 09:52 — Challenging Workaholism 13:33 — The Trap of Comparison15:38 — The Power of Speaking Your Struggles 19:09 — Progress and Self-Kindness21:21 — Final Thoughts Softening Your Inner Critic 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Feeling like you can’t keep up with everyone elseDepression warping your self imageWhen everyone else seems okay but youWorkaholic culture and self-worthWhat can depression tell us?Normalizing talking about what you struggle withHow to stop spiraling Worth isn’t defined by your productivity or ability to “keep up” with others 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP Merch

April 13, 2026Episode 9021 min

How To Find Yourself After Losing Yourself in a Corporate Career | E90

Does the term finding yourself sound cringy? I've seen my fair share of eye rolls when it comes up, but why? In this episode, we confront the societal shame that is often associated with self-discovery. I share my personal, continued, journey with finding myself and breaking free from the ideas others have for you. We talk about corporate conditioning, navigating other people's advice, and tuning into your own intuition. Discover the 3 actionable ways to help you find yourself and move towards living with more purpose. You can confidently pursue your authentic path without shame. ✨ FREE GUIDE: Soften Your Inner Critic in 7 Days: A Guide to Stop Getting In Your Own Way📖 7 Books To Find Yourself:The Celestine Prophecy by James Redfield The Great Work of Your Life by Stephen CopeThe Book of Dharma by Simon HaasThe Untethered Soul by Michael A. SingerThe Big Leap by Gay HendricksThe Well Lived Life by Gladys McGareyThe Secret by Rhonda Byrne📍 Timestamps:00:00 – Check In01:06 – The Shame Around Finding Yourself02:33 – Societal Judgment of Self-Discovery03:06 – TEDx Speech04:15 – One Important Question06:26 – Undoing Corporate Conditioning11:42 – What to do With Other People’s Advice15:17 – Practicing Intuition & Internal Listening16:02 – The Power of Reading Books17:29 – Seven Books to Help Find Yourself18:31 – Asking More for Yourself19:04 – Owning the Phrase “Find Yourself”20:08 – It’s Never Too Late to Find Yourself20:28 – Closing & Free Resource 💡Key TakeawaysIn this episode you'll learn:Breaking societal shame around finding yourselfEmbracing your own unique journey to purposeUndoing corporate conditioningAuthentic self-discoveryWhat to do with other's advice before applying it to your path to purposeDeveloping your own intuition Listening internally Discovering powerful booksIt’s never too late to startPositively impacting both your own life and those around you 🚀 Start Here If You’re New1. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: How to Trust Your Success as a High-Achiever | EP 452. Overcoming Others' Expectations: 3 Stages to Living an Authentic Life | EP 483. Should You Quit Your Job? How to Know When it’s Time for a Career Pivot | EP 39 👥How To ConnectWorkingtowardsourpurpose.comWatch on YouTubeSubstackInstagramLinkedInWTOP MerchFeedback Form WTOP.com