
How Do You Build a Real Working Relationship With a Colleague Before Things Get Hard? | Designing the Alliance: A Real Play in Human-to-Human Leadership with Chrissy Bernal and Kaitlin Voellinger
Send us Fan Mail What does it actually sound like when two colleagues sit down and build a real relationship on purpose, before the pressure hits? This week on The UpLevel Podcast , we step back and let you listen in on a real play. Two colleagues, Kaitlin Voellinger and Chrissy Bernal, are stepping into new roles together at UpLevel, leading marketing and operations side by side. Most teams wait for tension to force this kind of conversation. Kaitlin and Chrissy sit down and design the relationship first. You'll hear them name what's already working, share the values they want each other to hold onto, and make specific, honest requests about how they want to be supported when things get hard. This is a live demonstration of what conscious leadership sounds like when it moves from concept to practice. If you've ever slipped into "role to role" mode with a coworker and lost the human connection underneath it, this episode will give you language and a framework to bring it back. In this episode, you'll hear: What it sounds like to acknowledge what's already working in a working relationship How to name and share personal values with a colleague in a way that builds real understanding A live example of asking for feedback before you need it How two people negotiate a working agreement for communication, check-ins, and conflict Why success means pausing to actually feel accomplishment instead of rushing to the next goal What it means to be a "sounding board" instead of an "echo chamber" for a colleague If this conversation has you thinking about the relationships you're building at work, The School of UpLevel has on-demand courses designed to help you build these same skills for yourself, from coaching conversations to designing working alliances that actually hold up under pressure. You can explore what's available anytime here: https://course.uplevelproductions.com About Chrissy and Kaitlin: Chrissy Bernal is a brand architect and PR strategist who helps entrepreneurs and authors build brands with intention and clarity. Based in the Greater Houston area, she's the founder of Be a Better Brand, where she works with clients on strategic marketing, PR, and brand positioning. Chrissy is also a published author, and her own journey publishing children's books shaped much of her approach to branding, giving her firsthand insight into what it takes to build a message that actually connects. She's a previous guest on The UpLevel Podcast, where she spoke on brand growth and PR for authors, and she brings that same strategic, story-first thinking to her work leading marketing at UpLevel. Website: https://beabetterbrand.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chrissybernal/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrissybernal/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/officialChrissyBernal/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChrissyBernal Kaitlin Voellinger is the Director of Operations at UpLevel, where she brings structure, clarity, and steady presence to the work behind the scenes. She's known for creating safe, supportive spaces for the people around her, whether that's mentoring a colleague through a new challenge or holding the practical details that keep a team moving. Kaitlin leads with integrity and honesty at the center of everything she does, and she believes real success isn't just about hitting a goal. It's about building right relationships along the way and taking the time to actually feel the accomplishment together. She's currently co-leading UpLevel's marketing and operations alliance, bringing the same care and intention to that partnership that she brings to every part of her work. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kmaevoellinger/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kaitlin-voellinger-a1770a293/ 🎉 The UpLevel Podcast was listed as one of the Top 10 Best Coaching Culture Podcasts!!! https://podcasts.feedspot.com/coaching_culture_podcasts 🎉 It was also ranked #4 among the top 50 Best Workplace Mental Health Podcasts! https://podcast.feedspot.com/workplace_mental_health_podcasts www.uplevelproductions.com https://www.instagram.com/uplevelproductions/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/uplevelproductionscompany https://www.facebook.com/uplevelproductionscompany










