The Cost Of Performing For Success And Ignoring Signs Of Burnout With Kerrie Lee Brown
What happens when you stop performing success and start building a life that actually feels like yours? I sit down with Kerrie Lee Brown, a longtime media executive, former Chief Content Officer and Editor-in-Chief of SUCCESS Magazine, founder of Red Lily Media, and a storyteller who has spent more than 30 years helping other people find and share their authentic voices. Kerrie and I get real about vulnerability, ADHD masking, perfectionism, burnout, people-pleasing, and the pressure so many high-achieving women put on themselves. Kerrie shares how a heart attack at just 39 forced her to reconsider the relationship between stress, success, self-care, and identity. We also dig into what it means to unmask without oversharing, why authentic storytelling helps us feel less alone, how to lead creative and neurodivergent people as individuals, and what happens when we stop letting other people define success for us. Episode Highlights [0:56] - Why we edit ourselves, perform success, and hide the parts that feel like “too much.” [2:59] - Kerrie shares what 30 years of interviewing people taught her about authenticity and the stories we’re afraid to tell. [5:14] - The difference between sharing a real story and performing one—and why vulnerability creates connection. [8:42] - Afraid to be visible? We talk judgment, vulnerability, and deciding who deserves access to your story. [12:16] - Unmasking versus oversharing: how to stay authentic while still reading the room. [17:11] - Kerrie opens up about having a heart attack at 39 and the perfectionism, pressure, stress, and warning signs she had been ignoring. [22:52] - People-pleasing, overperforming, ADHD, and why putting yourself first isn't optional when everyone depends on you. [27:36] - Why creatives are never really “done”—and how strong leaders make room for different brains, personalities, and working styles. [31:22] - Being in “beta mode,” handling setbacks, taking people off pedestals, and questioning what success actually means. [36:37] - Why Kerrie created a platform where everyday people can share stories that deserve to be heard. [39:45] - The lifestyle and mindset changes Kerrie made after her heart attack—and how she learned to recognize stress creeping back in. [44:32] - How to tell your story without oversharing, asking for sympathy, or making everything about you. [46:45] - The difference between storytelling that builds genuine trust and storytelling that sounds like a pitch. Links & Resources Kerrie Lee Brown is an award-winning media executive, international journalist, author and speaker with more than 30 years of experience leading influential media brands across business,leadership, wellness and lifestyle. Having interviewed thousands of entrepreneurs, celebrities,executives, cultural icons and thought leaders, she brings a unique perspective on leadership,resilience, storytelling and personal transformation.She is the founder and CEO of RedLily® Media, a boutique storytelling consultancy, and co-founder of Lioness Global Initiatives™, a global experiential travel platform that brings ambitious women together through curated international expeditions focused on meaningful connection, cultural immersion and conscious leadership. A heart attack survivor and passionate advocate for sustainable success, Kerrie Lee inspires leaders to build lives and businesses rooted in authenticity, wellbeing and purpose through her speaking, writing, consulting and global collaborations. @kerrieleebrown_official KerrieLeeBrown.com Thank you for tuning into SuccessFULL with ADHD . If this episode has impacted you, remember to rate, follow, share, and review our podcast. Your support helps us reach and help more individuals navigating their journeys with ADHD. 🚨Calling all aspiring ADHD coaches ▶️ https://www.coachingwithbrooke.com/coach-certification-and-training Help your clients break free from paralysis and better manage their life with 3C Activation® coach training! 💥Gain a proven process for ADHD coaching 💥Earn 38 ICF Credits 💥Learn the latest neuroscience to boost your practice 💥Qualify to be listed under ACO Directory Learn more ▶️ https://www.coachingwithbrooke.com/coach-certification-and-training

