Find partners
The Ryan Fields-Spack (Dad) Show

The Ryan Fields-Spack (Dad) Show

Hosted by Ryan Fields-Spack

Episodes

167

Latest episode

Oct 2026

Language

EN-US

About the show

Fatherhood is tough, but great dads build community! Join Ryan Fields-Spack, a dad of 3, for real talk on being a better husband, father, and provider. With 20+ years as a paramedic and a Master’s in Homeland Security, Ryan shares poise and confidence to win at fatherhood. Learn to model faith, support your family, and grow wealth for your kids’ legacy. This podcast empowers dads with practical tips on parenting, marriage, and financial success. Be the role model your kids need! #Fatherhood #Dads #Parenting

Listen to episodes

60 recent
October 29, 20267 min

Camp with your kids. It is Worth it.

Join us for a father-son camping trip in Medicine Bow National Forest. We navigate rocky trails and find out how cold it gets.Bromley and I headed into the mountains for some time outdoors, taking our red GMC Denali off-road to find the perfect spot by the lake. We spent the day setting up our tent, cooking dinner, and trying our hand at fly fishing. It was the perfect escape from the summer heat until the temperature dropped and the rain started falling.We learned that even a simple father-son camping adventure can turn into a chilly, memorable night when the weather shifts unexpectedly. We woke up damp but happy, with a few new stories to tell about our time in the sleeping bags. What is your favorite memory from camping with your kids or your dad? Share your experience in the comments.Subscribe for more family adventures, time outdoors, and life as a dad.0:00 Arrival & First Impressions0:57 Driving the Rocky Road1:54 Navigating the Big Rock2:15 Setting Up at the Lake3:12 Boiling Water & Dinner Prep4:02 Fly Fishing Setup4:37 Cool Mountain Air After the Heat5:30 End of Day One at Camp

October 26, 202653 min

Faith, Forgiveness, Fatherhood: Be a better dad w/Roger Rolim

How do you become a better dad when you did not have the example you needed? Roger Rolim shares his 5 C's of Fatherhood and how faith, forgiveness, and connection shaped his journey.In this honest conversation, Roger reflects on finding belonging in a church youth group, letting go of painful experiences, and choosing to be there for his children. We explore why managing behavior is different from building a relationship—and why being physically present does not always mean being connected.Roger's 5 C's of Fatherhood:• Create a healthy physical, emotional, and spiritual environment.• Cultivate your child's gifts and support their growth.• Clarify boundaries, values, and direction.• Connect through listening, empathy, and participation.• Coach with guidance, encouragement, and celebration.We also discuss keeping faith when God feels silent, learning when to say yes, and the advice Roger would want his sons to remember. Stay for the closing prayer.be for more honest conversations about fatherhood, faith, and personal growth. If this conversation encourages you, share it with a dad who could use it. Get more from Roger: https://link.amazon/B00hlVf2PContent note: This episode includes discussion of suicidal thoughts and emotional distress.#Fatherhood #ParentingAdvice #FaithAndFatherhood

October 15, 202635 min

Want your kids to open up? Stop Fixing and Start Listening.

Trying harder to control your kids can leave you feeling more frustrated and less connected. What can you do instead?In this conversation, life coach and mom of four Emily joins Ray to explore a different approach to parenting: managing your own reactions, listening with curiosity, and building influence through connection.Follow Emily: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/parenting-teens-for-lds-moms-improve-your-relationship/id1770846530https://www.emilyrickscoaching.com/Emily shares an honest story about parenting her teenage son, the struggle to control his choices, and what shifted when she began focusing on her own thoughts and emotions. Together, they discuss practical ways dads can support their children, their partners, and themselves.In this episode, we explore:• The difference between parental influence and control• How to love your children as they are while maintaining boundaries• What “holding space” means—and how to practice it• Listening without immediately fixing, dismissing, or judging• Staying grounded during difficult conversations• Helping teenagers navigate friendships, mistakes, and growing independence• Supporting your child’s confidence when others are unkind• How faith, community, and coaching can support your parenting journey You don’t have to have every answer. Sometimes, a stronger relationship begins with a calmer response and a better question.CHAPTERS00:00 The parenting control trap00:38 Introducing the conversation01:15 Meet Emily03:49 Letting go of control05:23 A personal story about parenting a teenager09:30 Choosing unconditional love—with boundaries12:06 How to hold space for your family16:20 Pause, breathe, and manage your reactions18:10 Preparing for the middle school years22:16 Helping teens build inner confidence25:20 Faith and parenting29:20 Making time for coaching32:12 What to look for in a coach33:18 Connecting with Emily34:25 One piece of advice for your children Chapter times follow the supplied SRT; adjust if the final video edit changes.What’s harder for you as a parent: letting go of control, staying calm, or listening without jumping in to fix things? Share your experience in the comments.Subscribe for more honest conversations about fatherhood, parenting, relationships, and personal growth.#Parenting #Fatherhood #ParentingTeens #ParentingPodcast #ParentChildConnection #MindfulParenting #ActiveListening #EmotionalRegulation

October 1, 20267 min

I Hate Clothes Shopping | These shirts changed my mind.

I tried three Poncho shirts to see if they could make upgrading my dad wardrobe easier. This Poncho shirts review covers unboxing, first impressions, and a try-on of three long-sleeve western styles.I'm about 6'0" and 160 lbs, and I chose Medium Slim. I share how the shirts fit on me, how the heavier denim compares with the lighter performance shirts, and what I noticed about softness, stretch, pearl snaps, and rolled sleeves.Get your Poncho Shirts right here: https://www.ponchooutdoors.comDisclosure: Poncho sent me these three shirts for free. This video was not a paid sponsorship.If you're a dad who hates clothes shopping but wants to feel more put together, this one's for you. These are my initial impressions and try-on observations; I haven't completed a long-term wear or wash test.CHAPTERS00:00 Why I'm upgrading my dad wardrobe00:32 How I got these shirts00:53 Unboxing three Poncho shirts01:50 Lightweight fabric, snaps & sleeve details02:50 The navy shirt: first look03:41 The Ventura: heavier western denim04:43 Denim try-on & Medium Slim sizing05:26 Navy shirt try-on06:03 Light grey shirt try-on06:34 Final thoughts: style & confidence for dadsThe three styles featured: The Ventura, The Pacifico, and The San Saba.Which would you wear: sage denim, navy, or light grey? Let me know in the comments.Subscribe for more practical conversations about becoming better men, fathers, and husbands.#PonchoShirts #PonchoOutdoors #DadStyle

September 24, 202610 min

5 Silent Pressures Dads Carry (And How to Stop Carrying Them Alone)

Being a dad can feel like everything rests on your shoulders: your home, your family’s safety, your work, your sleep, and your children’s future.In this video, I walk through five quiet pressures many fathers carry and share how Psalm 127 is helping me approach them with faith, practical action, and a willingness to stop carrying everything alone.I’ve felt the pressure of checking the locks, bringing work stress home, losing patience when I’m exhausted, and wondering whether I’m guiding my kids the right way. I’m still learning how to handle those responsibilities while trusting God with what I can’t control.We’ll talk about creating a more peaceful home, preparing without living on constant alert, finding purpose in work, making room for rest, and giving our children both boundaries and room to grow.CHAPTERS00:00 The quiet load dads carry00:42 Your home: building a peaceful foundation01:49 Security: when protecting everyone feels like your job alone03:24 Work: carrying the pressure to provide04:36 Sleep: your family needs a rested dad05:39 Family: guiding your kids without controlling every step07:11 Psalm 127: where these five lessons come from08:37 What connects all five pressures09:14 One practical step to take this week10:00 The inspiration behind this message

August 6, 202614 min

Frontotemporal Dementia: The Disease That Looks Like Mental Illness

Doctors kept saying it was just anxiety or depression. They put her on 72-hour holds and sent her to behavioral health. It wasn’t. It was frontotemporal dementia (FTD). This video is for every son and only child who is watching their parent loop on the same fears — the power is being shut off, people are breaking into the house, the taxes aren’t paid, they have no health insurance — while the system keeps calling it a mental health problem. I walked this road with my mom starting in May 2024. I’m sharing exactly what happened, the signs I missed, the hard emotional truth, and the five things you need to do right now if this sounds familiar. You are not alone. Chapters 00:00 – If your parent keeps looping on the same fears01:16 – Why I’m making this for sons and only children02:05 – The first signs02:45 – The confusing cascade (behavioral health holds)04:09 – The turning point: memory care finally named it05:42 – Life in memory care08:13 – The hard truth (talking to my pastor)09:50 – What you need to do right now (5 practical steps)13:33 – Closing: You are not alone Helpful resource Association for Frontotemporal Degeneration (AFTD) Helpline: 866-507-7222 If this is your story, drop a comment and tell me where you are in it. Or email me — link in the about section. We will walk through the next steps together. #FrontotemporalDementia #FTD #Caregiver #Sons #DementiaAwareness

July 30, 20268 min

No More Dirty Falling Band-Aids: Testing Yehooheal Hydrocolloid on My Sons’ Road-Trip Injuries

What’s going on, Dad? Summer means cuts, scrapes, trampoline wipeouts, and road-trip battle wounds. Traditional Band-Aids get dirty, fall off in the pool, and slow everything down. As a former paramedic with a large metropolitan fire department, I tested the Yehooheal Medical Grade Hydrocolloid Roll (0.006-inch optimally thin, storage case, 16.4 ft total) on both of my boys after our big Yosemite road trip. One had a trampoline toe injury. The other took a real chunk out of his finger. We cleaned them, applied the hydrocolloid, ran full pool days over the 4th of July weekend, and checked results a week later. Spoiler: the healing looked significantly better, the thin second-skin feel was a game-changer on knuckles and toes, and the waterproof claim held up well with occasional re-wrapping. Timestamps / Chapters 0:00 – Summer cuts & why this is on Dad0:30 – Why traditional Band-Aids often fail active kids1:15 – Product reveal + full disclosure (sent by the brand, unbiased test)1:45 – My green first-aid kit2:00 – Cleaning Kellen’s toe (process walk-through)3:00 – Applying the hydrocolloid roll (thin film, dry skin, warm it, seal edges)4:30 – Pool-day plan5:00 – Bramley’s finger (the bigger chunk) – cleaning & wrapping7:20 – Multi-day pool results7:40 – One-week follow-up – healing progress & honest recommendation8:40 – New cut appears… back at it + next steps 🚑Get your rolls here (affiliate link helps the channel and you get the same great deal) https://amzn.to/4w0ihzh

July 23, 20268 min

From Lemonade Stand to Lawn Mowing – We Built the Trailer Himself

My son wanted to take his neighborhood business from a lemonade stand to lawn mowing… but how do you haul a mower around on a bike? So Bromley and I engineered and built a full DIY bike trailer that carries the mower, battery storage, and tools. This turned into one of the best father-son projects we’ve ever done — planning, measuring, cutting, bending pipe, safety lessons, and a lot of real engineering with the kids. If you’re a dad looking for a meaningful summer project that also teaches your kids how to create value and make money, this is for you. CHAPTERS 0:00 – From Lemonade Stand to Lawn Mowing 1:08 – Home Depot Run & Materials 1:30 – Harvesting the Old Wheel Set + Brake 1:45 – Measuring, Planning & Engineering Lessons 2:10 – Power Tools & Table Saw Practice 2:28 – Building the Rigid Metal Pipe Frame 3:11 – The $19 Amazon Hitch 3:30 – Pipe Bending Challenges 4:09 – First Ride / Maiden Voyage 4:41 – Safety Gear & Table Saw Kickback Lessons 4:51 – Chocks, Battery Storage & Test Drive 5:16 – Loading the Mower + Wheel Shims 5:42 – SawStop Safety 6:08 – Securing the Weed Whacker 6:29 – Final Solo Test 7:00 – Ready to Make Money 7:27 – Why This Project Matters for Dads What do you think — would your kids run a neighborhood business if they had the right setup? Drop a comment. Follow for more real father-son projects, family adventures, and practical dad content: #FatherSonProject #DIYBikeTrailer #KidEntrepreneur #DadLife #LawnMowingBusiness #SummerProjectsWithKids

July 17, 202612 min

Before You See The Odyssey, Watch This

Christopher Nolan’s The Odyssey is dominating theaters, but if you’re just watching for the special effects, you’re missing the entire point. Homer isn't just ancient literature; it’s a tactical survival guide for the modern father. I sit down with classical philosopher CB Robertson to strip away the Hollywood hype and reveal 5 hidden lessons inside the Iliad and the Odyssey. We dive deep into philosophy as an actionable strategy, surviving societal madness, and mastering your role as the protector and "world-creator" for your family. You will never watch the movie—or look at fatherhood—the same way again. 🔔 SUBSCRIBE for more tactical breakdowns and join the ongoing conversation CHAPTERS: 0:00 - The Hollywood Distraction (Why You're Really Here)0:55 - The Skeleton Key of Western Philosophy1:15 - Lesson 1: The Progression of Man (Iliad vs. Odyssey)4:16 - Lesson 2: Philosophy is Strategy, Not Theory6:00 - Lesson 3: Surviving Societal Madness7:40 - Lesson 4: Building Your Tribe9:14 - Lesson 5: The Father as a World Creator10:56 - Bonus: The Diamond Advice for Modern Men ABOUT THIS VIDEO: In this interview, we break down the ancient Greek philosophy behind Odysseus, Achilles, and the Peloponnesian War, translating it into a modern survival guide. Whether you are prepping to see Matt Damon and Tom Holland in IMAX, or you just want to build a stronger tribe and lead your family with excellence, this deep dive provides the blueprint. #TheOdyssey #ChristopherNolan #Fatherhood

July 16, 202611 min

Edinburgh with 3 Kids: Family Adventure in Scotland | Driving on the Left & More

Hey brother, we just got back from an incredible family trip to Edinburgh, Scotland with my wife and our three kids under 10. In this episode I walk you through exactly what we did — from staying at the stunning Edinburgh Grand to driving on the left side of the road, taking the tram, enjoying a Michelin-star dinner at The Kitchin, and making our own chocolate at the Chocolatarium. Real talk on international family travel with young kids: the challenges, the wins, and why these trips are worth every bit of effort. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro: Edinburgh with 3 Kids Under 1000:33 – Edinburgh Grand Hotel Tour & Our Huge Family Room02:33 – Hertz Car Rental + Driving on the Left Side of the Road (Tips!)05:51 – Tram Ride Across the City08:22 – The Kitchin: Michelin Star Dinner & Private Chef Tour09:44 – Chocolatarium: Making Our Own Chocolate Bars10:41 – Castles, Hiking & Final Thoughts on Family Travel ✅ Subscribe for more real dad travel and family leadership content🔔 Turn on notifications What part of a Scotland trip with young kids are you most curious about? Drop it in the comments.

Is this your show?

Claim this listing to keep it up to date, reach guests who want to pitch you, and manage bookings with Guestify.

Claim this listing